A professor
stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the
class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and
proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was
full. They agreed that it was.
The
professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He
shook the jar lightly. The pebbles roll
ed into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the
students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the
jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the
jar was full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and
poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space
between the sand.The students laughed..
‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important
things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite
passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life
would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your
job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.
‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no
room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will
never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit
with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will
always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer
represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The Beer just
shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a
couple of Beers with a friend.